I’m around 44 years old and my kids are still in the primary school, actually I do not think it is easy for me to find a man to establish a new family because I am not young any more but my kids are still so young…sometime I do feel unhappy about my personal life…Sometime I feel so lonely in the downtown area…I even want to phone a stranger to have a chat when I am free. Have you got the same feeling? When I was a teenager, I had been happy if you tell me I am full of strength and determination. While I am in my forties, I am panicky when you tell it to me…From my experiences of 40 years’ life, I do not think it is a good thing for a woman to have too much strength and determination that most time are the main reasons why her marriage is not very successful, because no man can tolerate the woman with a strong mind for a long time. On the other hand, I think if she was born with a strong mind, then the woman must pay more attention to learn how to respect others and how to express her idea in a gentle way, otherwise her strong mind is just a disaster for her and the people close to her. If you are happy to share the life stories with me, you will be more than welcome here. Do not worry about something you said properly or not, as a true friend, just say what you want to say, just be yourself and speak out your real opinion. In the reality, seldom people can talk with you with their heart. I hope we could say something from the cockles of our heart in this virtual memory…